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Aligning VLM Assistants with Personalized Situated Cognition

Yongqi Li, Shen Zhou, Xiaohu Li, Xin Miao, Jintao Wen, Mayi Xu, Jianhao Chen, Birong Pan

Abstract

Vision-language models (VLMs) aligned with general human objectives, such as being harmless and hallucination-free, have become valuable assistants of humans in managing visual tasks. However, people with diversified backgrounds have different cognition even in the same situation. Consequently, they may have personalized expectations for VLM assistants. This highlights the urgent need to align VLM assistants with personalized situated cognition for real-world assistance. To study this problem, we first simplify it by characterizing individuals based on the sociological concept of Role-Set. Then, we propose to evaluate the individuals’ actions to examine whether the personalized alignment is achieved. Further, we construct a benchmark named PCogAlignBench, which includes 18k instances and 20 individuals with different Role-Sets. Finally, we present a framework called PCogAlign, which constructs a cognition-aware and action-based reward model for personalized alignment. Experimental results and human evaluations demonstrate the reliability of the PCogAlignBench and the effectiveness of our proposed PCogAlign. We will open-source the constructed benchmark and code after being accepted.

BibTeX
@inproceedings{li-etal-2025-aligning-vlm,
    title = "Aligning {VLM} Assistants with Personalized Situated Cognition",
    author = "Li, Yongqi  and
      Zhou, Shen  and
      Li, Xiaohu  and
      Miao, Xin  and
      Wen, Jintao  and
      Xu, Mayi  and
      Chen, Jianhao  and
      Pan, Birong  and
      Kang, Hankun  and
      Zhu, Yuanyuan  and
      Zhong, Ming  and
      Qian, Tieyun",
    editor = "Che, Wanxiang  and
      Nabende, Joyce  and
      Shutova, Ekaterina  and
      Pilehvar, Mohammad Taher",
    booktitle = "Proceedings of the 63rd Annual Meeting of the Association for Computational Linguistics (Volume 1: Long Papers)",
    month = jul,
    year = "2025",
    address = "Vienna, Austria",
    publisher = "Association for Computational Linguistics",
    url = "https://aclanthology.org/2025.acl-long.484/",
    doi = "10.18653/v1/2025.acl-long.484",
    pages = "9813--9839",
    ISBN = "979-8-89176-251-0"
}
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