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Personalized Large Language Model Assistant with Evolving Conditional Memory

Ruifeng Yuan, Shichao Sun, Yongqi Li, Zili Wang, Ziqiang Cao, Wenjie Li

Abstract

With the rapid development of large language models, AI assistants like ChatGPT have become increasingly integrated into people’s works and lives but are limited in personalized services. In this paper, we present a plug-and-play framework that could facilitate personalized large language model assistants with evolving conditional memory. The personalized assistant focuses on intelligently preserving the knowledge and experience from the history dialogue with the user, which can be applied to future tailored responses that better align with the user’s preferences. Generally, the assistant generates a set of records from the dialogue, stores them in a memory bank, and retrieves related memory to improve the quality of the response. For the crucial memory design, we explore different ways of constructing the memory and propose a new memorizing mechanism named conditional memory to enhance the memory management of the framework. We also investigate the retrieval and usage of memory in the generation process. To better evaluate the personalized assistants’ abilities, we build the first evaluation benchmark from three critical aspects: continuing previous dialogue, learning personalized knowledge and learning from user feedback. The experimental results illustrate the effectiveness of our method.

BibTeX
@inproceedings{yuan-etal-2025-personalized,
    title = "Personalized Large Language Model Assistant with Evolving Conditional Memory",
    author = "Yuan, Ruifeng  and
      Sun, Shichao  and
      Li, Yongqi  and
      Wang, Zili  and
      Cao, Ziqiang  and
      Li, Wenjie",
    editor = "Rambow, Owen  and
      Wanner, Leo  and
      Apidianaki, Marianna  and
      Al-Khalifa, Hend  and
      Eugenio, Barbara Di  and
      Schockaert, Steven",
    booktitle = "Proceedings of the 31st International Conference on Computational Linguistics",
    month = jan,
    year = "2025",
    address = "Abu Dhabi, UAE",
    publisher = "Association for Computational Linguistics",
    url = "https://aclanthology.org/2025.coling-main.254/",
    pages = "3764--3777"
}
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